Passion Play for Partners

Your relationship is beautiful and committed, but it’s changed. Instead of trying to get your sex life back to how it used to be, let’s explore a whole new world of what’s possible when you embrace honest intimacy and bare your realest truths to each other.

Passion Play is a four month intimacy lab designed for partners who are serious about each other and want to commit to having the sex life of their dreams.

The shared experience of exploring erotic imagination, addressing attachment wounds, and uncovering the intersections of your desires fosters deep, playful, evolving intimacy.

How Does Passion Play Work?

  • You Get Yours

    Celebrate your desires with a Playdate that’s all about you. Allow your partner to bear witness to your pleasure and learn to celebrate you getting what you want.

  • They Get Theirs

    Your partner’s desires deserve celebrating too. Bearing witness to our partners’ healing and pleasure can be a deeply connective experience and it can bring up hard feelings that we will work through together.

  • Get it Together

    We’ll find the places where everyone’s desires align and create exciting ways to play together. You’ll learn skills that will help you communicate about your desires, navigate how to mindfully try new sexual experiences together, and create and negotiate your own scenes.

  • Partnered Coaching

    Coaching sessions open up space and time for you and your partner to find your way back to each other in the places where you feel barriers between you. Sessions can include relational parts work, somatic touch, relationship repair, and much more.

What’s Included?

  • Give us a quick sense of where you're at and where you want to be

  • Once we receive your questionnaire, we'll reach out to you to schedule a consultation. We'll meet you and your partner(s) and dig in to your specific context to feel into whether working together is a good fit. If you want to hire us for a Playdate, we'll target a fantasy and get an idea of what parts are at play for each of you that may have made it challenging to "go there."

  • Once you hire us for a Passion Play intimacy lab, we'll ask you each to fill out a longer intake form so we can get to the heart of things in our work.

    Then we'll have a 60-minute call with each of you individually and a 60-minute call together to dig deep.

  • We'll have two 60-minute coaching calls to get set up for the first Playdate. We'll explore fantasies, work with scared or shamed parts, and negotiate your first Dress Rehearsal.

    Then we'll have a 3-hour playdate. You'll come hang out with us at Lauren's sacred dungeon space. We'll do a thorough negotiation, give love to any shamed or nervous parts, and then you'll do your Fantasy Dress Rehearsal with everything but the sex. We'll be right there to revel in the hotness, troubleshoot anything that comes up, and set you up with your sexy next steps at home.

  • We'll repeat the process with two coaching calls in the leadup to your next Playdate, where we'll take up and live out the fantasy of the other partner.

  • Now that you've both had the lived experience of exploring your deep fantasies, we'll aim at the center of the venn diagram. Where do your erotic imaginations overlap into maximum shared hotness?

  • We'll celebrate all your victories, explore any lingering feelings, and chart the path forward what's next as you deepen your sexual intimacy together!

Investment: $10,000