We work with clients who are serious about bringing their sex lives up to par with what they deserve.

That means they're prepared to face some icky shame and discomfort along the way. We use play and pleasure and laughter to soften and soothe and heal in community...but you do have to be willing to open your heart to some painful spots.

• If you and your partner(s) have had a serious conversation about what you might need to resolve what's not working so well in your sex life

• If you and your partner(s) are honestly ready to show up and show some scary parts of yourselves to each other

• If you and your partner(s) are actively in therapy

Let's talk.

That's hot! If you have a shame kink, we'll focus on how to keep the turn on alive while stopping the shame from interfering in your life in life in unconscious places.

We're so glad you're asking this question. Deepening the amount of intimacy in our relationships requires courage precisely because we must contend with the possibility that we'll become aware of incompatibilities.

We'll always aim at finding the places where you do overlap, and supporting you to deepen a little closer in each other's direction. We're rooting for your relationship.

If the result of your good faith honesty, intimacy, and personal development work is that your relationship is no longer the most aligned choice for you, then we'll help you lovingly re-align.

Nope.

Our intimacy labs take the sex act out of the room in order to identify and address all the other factors in the room that are influencing your sex life. There will be erotic energy in the room, and there will be no sex in the room.

Once we've cleared the major shame hurdles out of the way, we'll leave you in your private accommodations to add the sex on your own. Later, we'll celebrate with you in our debrief.

We aren't therapists. We are coaches with training in somatics, parts work, psychodrama, and conscious BDSM for personal development.

We require that our clients be working with a therapist so they have a place to process the insights that come out of our work together. We offer and encourage clients to connect us with their current therapist(s) in order to ensure all the work your doing is as supportive of each other as possible.

We only work with relationships, which includes throuples, polycules, and other alternative relationship structures.